I have no rules for this community, for my live chats, or for any other interactions we have as consenting adults. If you need rules, you're free to make some for yourself and follow them as you please. I'm no one's master or controller.

What I do have are healthy boundaries and when someone is attacking me and disrupting the community at the same time, I have nothing but love for myself and remove that person from my life. I don't owe anyone but myself anything -- and what I owe myself is love.

If you are here in consenting, loving, community-creating goodness -- that's perfect. Your presence and contributions are awesome. We don't EVER have to agree on ANYTHING. Not ever. We can disagree all day every day about every single detail and still be in community together. If we agreed on everything, I'd be worried. That would be abnormal.

We can sometimes have shitty days or get triggered and upset and act inappropriately and we all do that. This is also ok. Friends understand when friends are imperfect. And I will never ban or remove someone's shared commentary or content when someone's having a bad day or an emotional reaction in the moment.

I will always make my boundaries clear multiple times and ways before I remove someone entirely and I'm exceptionally fair and balanced, always have been, always will be.

I hope each and every one of you feels safe and happy here while also accepting the responsibility of being generally loving while also getting muddy sometimes and grappling with one another over points of contention or disagreement. These are all healthy ways of interacting.

When someone attacks me or others, continuously, and disrupts live chats as well as posting paranoid clue trails for months without engaging in open discussion, I'm happy to see them go.

Keep kicking ass and being awesome and, if you think I'm an agent of the Pope, I wish you'd tell him so he could pay me better 😘